Benefits of Using Mediation During Divorce

What Are the Benefits of Mediation When Getting a Divorce?

If you are considering divorce, there is a lot to think about. Mediation can be an excellent way to keep the process as manageable and stress-free as possible. Mediators like Shannon Bodeker have years of experience in this field and will work with both parties to come up with solutions that they agree upon. Mediation helps you make important decisions without the stress and delay of having to go to court. In this article, we will discuss 10 reasons why utilising a law professional like Shannon Bodeker from Bodekers Family Lawyers & Mediators can make your divorce much simpler.


  • Cheaper

The use of mediation to settle divorce disputes is cost-effective. A mediation process will save both parties money when it comes to lawyers’ fees as well as other legal costs normally associated with litigation. Having to spend hours with your lawyer preparing your case for litigation and then waiting and arguing your case in court is not always a cost-effective method of resolving your divorce. With mediation, you are paying for time spent searching for a solution. You could save a lot of money and be able to move on faster and easier. 

  • Faster

Mediators work to ensure a timely resolution of the issue. Mediation is usually the fastest way to resolve disputes. Your case is not at the mercy of the court’s schedule and won’t need to wait months for a decision. A mediation session can be arranged as soon as possible if you need to address a pressing issue with your spouse. The process provides you with a flexible and efficient way to handle your divorce issues.

  • Maintain Control

By using mediation, both parties can be protected from surprises down the road and reduce the likelihood of conflict and delays. Mediators help people make their own informed decisions about their financial, parental, and legal options rather than judges taking that responsibility away from them. The mediator helps the ex-spouse communicate clearly, consider and discuss options, and take responsibility for your decisions, rather than blaming and fault-finding that can occur between attorneys in court.

  • Avoid Court

Mediation can help you resolve your divorce without having to go to court, which will save time, money and stress. Instead of hiring two lawyers to battle on your behalf and represent only your interests, hire one mediator focused on maintaining the peace and focusing on solutions that benefit both parties.

  • An Unbiased Opinion

Whereas a lawyer is arguing for their client and trying to gain the best outcomes regardless of the other party a mediator has no stake either financially or emotionally in your case. This means that they have an unbiased perspective of what’s best for you and are more likely to facilitate outcomes that benefit both parties.

  • Less Confrontation

Ultimately, for a successful settlement, a good relationship is important, so mediation offers a less confrontational approach compared to going through a contested hearing in court or a tribunal, where emotions can easily get out of hand. 

  • Easier On Children

By using mediation, both parents can sit down to create a child sharing agreement that meets both their children’s needs and maintains their relationship with both parents. It reduces stress for everyone, including the children, when issues are addressed promptly and high stakes court hearings are avoided.

  • Customised and Creative Solutions

The typical approach to a litigated divorce is to sell the house, split retirement, and establish a parenting schedule according to traditional definitions. In divorce mediation, ex-spouses can achieve a fair settlement that reflects their unique needs and goals and the unique needs of their families by thinking outside the box. 

  • Less Chance of Future Legal Conflicts

People are much more likely to be resentful and resistant to court-ordered parenting and financial decisions when they are made by others, such as magistrates and judges, and imposed upon them. Family members are emotionally and financially drained by such long-term legal disputes. Mediation has been proven to increase people’s involvement, satisfaction, and willingness to follow through on agreements as they are developing them voluntarily.

  • Confidentiality

You will make all of your private business publicly available when you file pleadings in court. The allegations made in these pleadings can be inflammatory and are usually best kept private. The parties exchange financial information during mediation, but it is not filed with the court. The Court does not receive any declarations of private matters disclosing difficult family matters that take place in private. Your personal information is kept private, and the process is confidential.

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